1-2-3 Magic: Effective Discipline for Children 2–12

About This Program

Target Population: Parents, grandparents, teachers, babysitters, and other caretakers working with children

For children/adolescents ages: 2 – 12

For parents/caregivers of children ages: 2 – 12

Program Overview

1-2-3 Magic is a group format discipline program for parents of children approximately 2-12 years of age. The program can be used with average or special needs children. 1-2-3 Magic divides the parenting responsibilities into three straightforward tasks: controlling negative behavior, encouraging good behavior, and strengthening the child-parent relationship. The program seeks to encourage gentle, but firm, discipline without arguing, yelling, or spanking.

Program Goals

The overall goals of 1-2-3 Magic: Effective Discipline for Children 2-12 are:

  • Be able to use one simple tactic to manage obnoxious behavior without arguing, yelling, or spanking
  • Be able to use six different tactics for encouraging routines for positive behavior
  • Master four strategies for strengthening relationships with their children
  • Understand how to recognize and manage the six kinds of testing and manipulation
  • Learn appropriate expectations for children's behavior

Logic Model

The program representative did not provide information about a Logic Model for 1-2-3 Magic: Effective Discipline for Children 2–12.

Essential Components

The essential components of 1-2-3 Magic: Effective Discipline for Children 2-12 include:

  • 1-2-3 Magic is typically taught in a group format.
  • The program defines two basic kinds of problems that children present to adults; Stop Behavior and Start Behavior. When adults are frustrated with their youngsters, the kids are either:
    • Doing something the adults want them to Stop
    • Not doing something the adults would like them to Start
  • Some Start behavior tactics (behavioral management techniques) include using: positive verbal feedback, a kitchen timer method, a docking system, natural consequences, and charting.
  • 1-2-3 Magic has three simple steps:
    • Control Obnoxious Behavior. Learn a simple technique to get your kids to Stop doing what you don't want them to do (whining, arguing, tantrums, sibling rivalry, etc.)
    • Encourage Good Behavior. Learn several effective methods to get your kids to Start doing what you do want them to do (cleaning rooms, going to bed, homework, etc.)
    • Strengthen Relationships, Learn powerful techniques that reinforce your bond with your children.
  • 1-2-3 Magic utilizes a counting technique that is clearly understood by children so they know the consequences of their actions. The secret is not just in the counting, however. The real secret or "magic" comes from parents learning when to keep quiet.
  • The 'Little Adult Assumption' explores the notion that children are not little adults and do not have the same reasoning capacity as an adult
  • Parents also learn about managing the Six Kinds of Testing and Manipulation: badgering, intimidation, threats, martyrdom, butter-up, and physical.
  • Relationship building strategies are also provided in this program

Program Delivery

Child/Adolescent Services

1-2-3 Magic: Effective Discipline for Children 2–12 directly provides services to children/adolescents and addresses the following:

  • Arguing, whining, sibling rivalry, disrespect, bedtime issues, homework compliance, etc.

Parent/Caregiver Services

1-2-3 Magic: Effective Discipline for Children 2–12 directly provides services to parents/caregivers and addresses the following:

  • Parents with children with behavior problems involving compliance and oppositional issues; difficult adult/child relationship

Recommended Intensity:

One or two sessions per week

Recommended Duration:

1.5 hours per session for 4-8 weeks

Delivery Settings

This program is typically conducted in a(n):

  • Adoptive Home
  • Birth Family Home
  • Foster / Kinship Care
  • Hospital
  • Outpatient Clinic
  • Community-based Agency / Organization / Provider
  • Group or Residential Care
  • School Setting (Including: Day Care, Day Treatment Programs, etc.)

Homework

1-2-3 Magic: Effective Discipline for Children 2–12 includes a homework component:

Homework assignments involve managing "Stop" behaviors (whining, arguing, tantrums, sibling rivalry, etc.) and encouraging "Start" behaviors (cleaning rooms, going to bed, homework, etc.) and relationship building strategies.

Languages

1-2-3 Magic: Effective Discipline for Children 2–12 has materials available in a language other than English:

Spanish

For information on which materials are available in this language, please check on the program's website or contact the program representative (contact information is listed at the bottom of this page).

Resources Needed to Run Program

The typical resources for implementing the program are:

  • Microphone
  • Classroom set up

Manuals and Training

Prerequisite/Minimum Provider Qualifications

Mental health professionals or teachers

Manual Information

There is a manual that describes how to deliver this program.

Training Information

There is training available for this program.

Training Contact:
  • Nancy Roe
    phone: (630) 469-0484
Training Type/Location:

Onsite

Number of days/hours:

3–5 hours

Additional Resources:

There currently are additional qualified resources for training:

  • Sig Taylor - Calgary, Canada (403) 237-7501
  • Barbara Condrell - Buffalo, NY (716) 687-2311

Implementation Information

Pre-Implementation Materials

There are no pre-implementation materials to measure organizational or provider readiness for 1-2-3 Magic: Effective Discipline for Children 2–12.

Formal Support for Implementation

There is formal support available for implementation of 1-2-3 Magic: Effective Discipline for Children 2–12 as listed below:

Optional formal support is available by email, phone, and personal consultation as needed. Contact the program representative listed on the bottom of the page for more information.

Fidelity Measures

There are no fidelity measures for 1-2-3 Magic: Effective Discipline for Children 2–12.

Implementation Guides or Manuals

There are no implementation guides or manuals for 1-2-3 Magic: Effective Discipline for Children 2–12.

Implementation Cost

There are no studies of the costs of 1-2-3 Magic: Effective Discipline for Children 2–12.

Research on How to Implement the Program

Research has not been conducted on how to implement 1-2-3 Magic: Effective Discipline for Children 2–12.

Relevant Published, Peer-Reviewed Research

Child Welfare Outcome: Child/Family Well-Being

"What is included in the Relevant Published, Peer-Reviewed Research section?"

Bradley, S. J., Jadaa, D. A., Brody, J., Landy, S., Tallett, S. E., Watson, W., Shea, B., & Stephens, D. (2003). Brief psychoeducational parenting program: An evaluation and 1-year follow-up. Journal of the American Academy of Child & Adolescent Psychiatry, 42(10), 1171–1178. https://doi.org/10.1097/00004583-200310000-00007

Type of Study: Randomized controlled trial
Number of Participants: 222

Population:

  • Age — 3–4 years
  • Race/Ethnicity — Majority White
  • Gender — Experimental group: 58.4% Male and 41.6% Female; Control group: 63.3% Male and 36.7% Female
  • Status — Participants were volunteers recruited through community ads.

Location/Institution: Toronto, Canada

Summary: (To include basic study design, measures, results, and notable limitations)
The purpose of the study was to describe the randomized controlled evaluation of a four-session psychoeducational group for parents of preschoolers with behavior problems, delivered in community agencies. Participants were randomly assigned to 1-2-3 Magic [now called 1-2-3 Magic: Effective Discipline for Children 2–12] or a wait-list control group. Measures utilized include the Parenting Scale (PS), the Preschool Behavior Questionnaire (PBQ), the Preschool Characteristics Questionnaire (PCQ), and the Brief Symptom Inventory (BSI). Results indicate that the parents who received 1-2-3 Magic reported significantly greater improvement in parenting practices and a significantly greater reduction in child problem behavior than the control group. The gains in positive parenting behaviors were maintained at 1-year follow-up in a subset of the 1-2-3 Magic group. Limitations include the lack of a control group at the postintervention follow-up and concerns about generalizability of the results due to the largely white, middle-class, and educated sample.

Length of controlled postintervention follow-up: None.

Porzig-Drummond, R., Stevenson, R. J., & Stevenson, C. (2014). The 1-2-3 Magic parenting program and its effect on child problem behaviors and dysfunctional parenting: A randomized controlled trial. Behaviour Research and Therapy, 58, 52–64. https://doi.org/10.1016/j.brat.2014.05.004

Type of Study: Randomized controlled trial
Number of Participants: 92

Population:

  • Age — Parents: 29–52 years; Children: 2–12 years
  • Race/Ethnicity — Not specified
  • Gender — Parents: 84% Female; Children: 59% Male
  • Status — Participants were volunteers recruited through community ads.

Location/Institution: Sydney, Australia

Summary: (To include basic study design, measures, results, and notable limitations)
The purpose of the study was to investigate whether both the 1-2-3 Magic Effective Discipline for Children 2–12 parenting program and the 1-2-3 Magic & Emotion Coaching parenting program would be effective in reducing dysfunctional parenting and child problem behaviors, particularly when delivered to large groups of caregivers with children spanning the program-recommended age range of 2–12. Participants were randomly allocated to one of three groups: (1) the DVD group, based on 1-2-3-Magic: Effective Discipline for Children 2–12; (2) the Emotion Coaching (EC group), based on the 1-2-3-Magic & Emotion Coaching program; or (3) the Waitlist-control group (Control). Measures utilized include the Eyberg Child Behavior Inventory (ECBI), the Parent Stress Index Short Form (PSI-SF), the Depression Anxiety and Stress Scales (DASS-21), and the Emotion-Related Parenting Styles Self-Test (ERPS-ST). Results indicate that both intervention groups reported significantly decreased child problem behaviors, dysfunctional parenting, parental depression, and parental stress at the end of the intervention as compared to the control group. Additionally, the DVD, 1-2-3-Magic: Effective Discipline for Children 2–12 group reported decreased parental anxiety, and the EC group reported a decrease in emotion-dismissing parenting style. Emotion-coaching parenting style remained unchanged for all groups at post-intervention. The results were maintained after three months. After two years, all intervention effects were maintained for the DVD, 1-2-3-Magic: Effective Discipline for Children 2–12 group. For the EC group, effects were maintained on the main outcome variables. The results suggest that both 1-2-3 Magic programs are effective at reducing child problem behavior and dysfunctional parenting when delivered to large groups of caregivers, and that both programs are suitable for a broad delivery approach. Limitations include the lack of a control group at the 3-month and 2-year postintervention follow-ups and the small sample size for a study involving three groups.

Length of controlled postintervention follow-up: None.

Porzig-Drummond, R., Stevenson, R. J., & Stevenson, C. (2015). Preliminary evaluation of a self-directed video-based 1-2-3 Magic parenting program: A randomized controlled trial. Behaviour Research and Therapy, 66, 32–42. https://doi.org/10.1016/j.brat.2015.01.003

Type of Study: Randomized controlled trial
Number of Participants: 84

Population:

  • Age — Parents: 32–47 years; Children: 2–10 years
  • Race/Ethnicity — Not Specified
  • Gender — Parents: 89% Female; Children: 50% Male
  • Status — Participants were volunteers recruited through community ads, childcare centers, and primary schools.

Location/Institution: Not Specified

Summary: (To include basic study design, measures, results, and notable limitations)
The purpose of the study was to examine the effectiveness of a self-directed video-based format of the 1-2-3 Magic: Effective Discipline for Children 2–12 parenting program in reducing dysfunctional parenting and child problem behaviors. Participants were randomly assigned to either 1-2-3-Magic: Effective Discipline for Children 2–12 or the waitlist control group. Measures utilized include the Eyberg Child Behavior Inventory (ECBI), the Parent Stress Index Short Form (PSI-SF), the Depression Anxiety and Stress Scales (DASS-21), and the Therapy Attitude Inventory. Results indicate that participants in the 1-2-3-Magic: Effective Discipline for Children 2–12 group reported significantly less problem behaviors for their children, and significantly less dysfunctional parenting, at the end of the intervention when compared to the control group. Limitations include the lack of a control group at the 6-month postintervention follow-up; small sample size; concerns about the generalizability to other populations due to the largely college educated, married, above average income sample; and the use of self-referred families, who may be more willing to complete self-directed work than others.

Length of controlled postintervention follow-up: None.

Chesterfield, J. A., Porzig-Drummond, R., Stevenson, R. J., & Stevenson, C. S. (2021). Evaluating a brief behavioral parenting program for parents of school-aged children with ADHD. Parenting, 21(3), 216–240. https://doi.org/10.1080/15295192.2020.1777783

Type of Study: Randomized controlled trial
Number of Participants: 57

Population:

  • Age — Parents: 33–58 years; Children: 6–12 years
  • Race/Ethnicity — Not specified
  • Gender — Parents: 82% Female, 18% Male; Children: 39% Female, 61% Male
  • Status — Participants were volunteers recruited through community ads.

Location/Institution: Sydney, Australia

Summary: (To include basic study design, measures, results, and notable limitations)
The purpose of the study was to assess whether a brief behavioral parenting program, 1-2-3 Magic [now called 1-2-3 Magic: Effective Discipline for Children 2–12], would be effective in reducing disruptive behavior and ADHD symptoms in school-aged children with ADHD and dysfunctional parenting in their parents. Participants were randomly allocated to the 1-2-3 Magic or waitlist-control group. Measures utilized include the Eyberg Child Behavior Inventory (ECBI), the Parent Stress Index Short Form (PSI-SF), the Therapy Attitude Inventory (TAI), and the Conners 3rd Edition-Parent Short Form (Conners 3-P(S)). Results indicate that parents in the 1-2-3 Magic reported less child disruptive behavior, reduced child ADHD symptom severity, and less dysfunctional parenting at post-intervention compared with controls. Post-intervention results indicated that the major intervention effects were maintained at the 6-month follow-up. Limitations include the lack of a control group at 6-month postintervention follow-ups, reliance on self-reported measures, and the small sample size.

Length of controlled postintervention follow-up: None.

The following studies were not included in rating 1-2-3 Magic: Effective Discipline for Children 2–12 on the Scientific Rating Scale...

Flaherty, R., & Cooper, R. (2010). Piloting a parenting skills program in an Australian rural child protection setting. Children Australia, 35(3), 18–24. https://doi.org/10.1017/S1035077200001139

The purpose of the study was to investigate the effectiveness of a three-session version of 1-2-3 Magic [now called 1-2-3 Magic: Effective Discipline for Children 2–12] on parenting satisfaction and reduce levels of anxiety, depression, stress and dysfunctional parenting style in parents or caregivers of children who have experienced abuse. Participants were randomly assigned to a 1-2-3 Magic immediate intervention group or a 3-month waitlist control group. Measures utilized include the Eyberg Child Behavior Inventory (ECBI), the Parenting Scale (PS), the Depression Anxiety and Stress Scales (DASS), and the Parenting Satisfaction Scale. Results indicate that caregivers who received the intervention reported significant improvements in their mental health and discipline practices, and a significant reduction in child problem behavior compared to the waitlist control group. Limitations include the small sample size, reliability on self-reported measures, and lack of follow-up. Note: This article was not used in the rating process since it reports on an adaptation of 1-2-3 Magic: Effective Discipline for Children 2–12.

Bailey , E. L., van der Zwan, R., Phelan, T. W., & Brooks, A. (2015). Keeping it going: Evidence of long-term improvements after implementation of the 1-2-3 Magic Parenting Program. Child & Family Behavior Therapy, 37(4), 303–320. https://doi.org/10.1080/07317107.2015.1104776

The purpose of the study was to investigate the effectiveness of a two-session version of 1-2-3 Magic [now known as 1-2-3 Magic: Effective Discipline for Children 2–12] on child and parent behavior for families with school-aged children. Participants were randomly allocated to one of two groups: immediate training of 1-2-3 Magic, or a control group. Measures utilized include the Eyberg Child Behavior Inventory (ECBI), the Parent Information Questionnaire (PIQ), and the Parenting Scale (PS). Results indicate that only families who had received training reported significant improvement in child and parenting behavior. Limitations include the small sample size, reliability of self-reported measures, and data from the 12-month follow-up assessment does not include any control data. Note: This article was not used in the rating process since it reports on an adaptation of 1-2-3 Magic: Effective Discipline for Children 2–12.

Additional References

Phelan, T. (2004). 1-2-3 Magic: Effective discipline for children 2-12. Parent Magic, Inc.: Glen Ellyn, IL.

Contact Information

Thomas W. Phelan, PhD
Agency/Affiliation: Parent Magic, Inc.
Website: www.123magic.com
Email:
Phone: (630) 790-9600
Fax: (630) 469-4571

Date Research Evidence Last Reviewed by CEBC: May 2025

Date Program Content Last Reviewed by Program Staff: August 2021

Date Program Originally Loaded onto CEBC: March 2006